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Poor Old Church!
18 August 2003
It seems that
officials of the Catholic Church can't get it right these
days! Well - hell slap it into them - if they deserve
it! Paedophile priests are
a total abhorrence, and the trouble is that Bishops (none of them
infallible or sinless) have mistakenly shielded such guilty men from
the full consequences of their abominable
actions. Their motives, worldwide, have been
twofold - concern for the individual priest (kindness and
forgiveness is, after all, the essence of Christianity) and
concern for the public reputation of the Church. Offenders have been
sent on monastic 'retreat', and having repented have been posted to
other parishes. Catholics will readily
recognise the procedure. We confess our sins, express our
sorrow and promise to reform our behaviour. We are kindly
exhorted to amend our lives. We are forgiven through the
authority given by Christ - "... those whose sins you forgive, they
are forgiven; for those whose sins you retain, they are retained."
(JN 20:23)
For those who are not Catholic it
should be noted that priests too are required to go to regular
Confession - even more than lay people. We are all in the same boat.
There is a recognition that all men and women must discipline
themselves, not only with regard to sex of course. False
pride, anger, lust, gluttony, greed, envy, theft, spreading false
rumour (calumny), detraction, lying, are among the common
sins, each demanding prayer, dedication and God's help in order to
overcome the fault, the temptation. It is a common experience
that those of us who confess our sins in this way receive kindly
advice and encouragement, as well as the grace of God to amend our
ways, though it is also clear that we are inclined to relapse into
bad habits despite our good intentions. It would appear to be
a fact that most fail, to a greater or lesser extent, to achieve
absolute purity, but Catholics like to think that their priests do
achieve such perfection. Wishful thinking perhaps, but in principle
we hope that they do, for as ordained priests their example and
leadership is essential, giving us hope in our constant
struggle to achieve perfection of soul and body. St.
Paul recommends total sexual abstinence but recognises that not all
will be able to achieve this. Better to get married, he
states, rather than burn with sexual desire. A tall order if you
cannot find a partner! (I wonder did Paul think of
this!) But whatever our marital state we are
expected to control ourselves - decide not to commit sins of the
flesh, ranging from masturbation to fornication, adultery, buggery
and bestiality, dreadful sins that are easily recognisable as
abnormalities by everyone, Christian or otherwise.
The trouble is that many people, Christian and otherwise, are
tempted to give up in the face of the challenge. They perhaps
excuse themselves when it comes to masturbation. This
practice is OK they say. It's a natural thing and brings
relief and pleasure. Others choose to believe that sex with a
willing partner outside marriage is acceptable - natural and healthy
they claim. Natural yes, but healthy? Not if you see chastity
as the ideal, inside and outside marriage, and sexual relationships
as only acceptable within dedicated married
love. Purity of mind and heart is the ideal
demanded by Christ. We must deny ourselves, take up our cross
daily and follow Him. If we do not we are not worthy of
Him. 'If anyone wants to be a follower of mine, let him
renounce himself and take up his cross and follow me.' he says.
(MK 8:34)
A hard saying, but the only option open to us if we are to attain
the freedom of perfect love. Church leaders
recognise the difficulty, that priests will fail to live up to the
obligations they have undertaken, so they try to establish ways in
which errant clergy be brought to book, ergo the Vatican Instruction
to all Bishops that was promulgated in 1962 - dealing
specifically with priests who misuse the process of
Confession to suborn penitents and engage in deeds of sexuality,
making use of the weakness of individual
penitents. Church leaders recognise this
as a dreadful crime. The Vatican document pulls no
punches. It recognises that such dreadful abuses occur, that
steps must be taken to outlaw and obliterate such practices,
including punishment that ranges from withdrawal of the power to
hear confessions to laicising (defrocking of
priests). No-one can object to this.
Where I am deeply offended is that anyone making such an
accusation against a priest is forced, in the 1962 instruction, by
oath and the threat of automatic excommunication, to observe
secrecy, beyond the trial procedures instigated within the
church. This was obviously an effort to maintain a
deceptive outward appearance - that all is well within the Church.
Hopefully the instruction is no longer in force and the attitude
abandoned, for the good of Christ's Church. Even
though I have an almost unbounded admiration for Pope John XXIII,
who did so much to sweep aside stupid and irrational procedures
within the church, I am appalled to discover that this Vatican
Instruction was promulgated with his consent. Forty
years ago attitudes were, of course, different from those
of today. Then Authority, with a capital A, existed
throughout government, industry and the church. Total control
and obedience was expected. Now we have an open society in ways
that were undreamt of at that time. Nevertheless, the
thought that a person abused by a priest was threatened with Church
Excommunication if she / he publicly revealed his or her
plight is total anathema - a further crime, of organised
violence against the person, as great as the original
crime. When all of this is seen in perspective my
hope is that Bishops and the Roman Curia will humbly recognise that
only the truth will serve the Lord, that worship of exterior
appearance is worship of a false god - a lie that is totally
unacceptable to those who worship God in spirit and in
truth. We are all sinners, all imperfect - whether
bishop, priest or lay - and we should recognise this openly in
theory and in practice, and also recognise that anyone who offends
against the just laws of society should be subject to legitimate
punishment, as is now happening - with offending priests being sent
to jail etc. It would be a healthy thing too if
those who are not church members would also recognise their
personal deficiencies. Let he who is without sin
cast the first stone. |